“My best, my hostess, who do you want to deceive?” — Lady condemns men for female friendships
AND lady has sparked conversation on social media after criticizing men who maintain close friendships with other women while in a relationship.
Talk of a relationship causes reactions on the Internet
In a viral video circulating online, an unidentified woman claims that there is nothing wrong with men having female friends, as long as they are not in a romantic relationship with her.
The lady expressed her frustration at what she described as the fraudulent behavior of some men who label women as “best friends” or “housewives” hiding romantic intentions.
Her comments quickly drew mixed reactions from netizens, with many discussing the boundaries in the modern world relationships and friendships of the opposite sex.
“It’s okay for guys to have girlfriends. It’s totally okay for them to chat, make late night calls, and even take her out. It’s okay as long as it’s not my man“, she said.
“As long as you and I aren’t dating, as long as you don’t sleep with me and call me honey, then it’s fine. You people are very stupid. My best, my hostess, who do you want to fool?“, she added.
Social media users are divided over the statement
The video has since drawn thousands of reactions on various platforms, with some users supporting her stance, while others argued that healthy friendships can exist without a romantic relationship.
Discussions about relationships involving trust, loyalty and boundaries have remained common topics online in recent years.
In 2024, several viral relationship podcasts and discussions on TikTok have similarly fueled heated debates about whether people in committed relationships should maintain close ties with ex-partners or friends of the opposite sex.
Experts often linked such debates to changing dating expectations among young people and the increased influence of social media.
Watch the video below…
Pretty understands that it’s okay for guys to have girlfriends and chat and go out as long as it’s not my man.” – the lady sends a warning pic.twitter.com/Rb0DiCmVKM
— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) May 25, 2026
