“I’ll make friends with her first” – Timini Egbuson shares strategy with women who are already in a relationship

- Nollywood actor Timini Egbuson has made a controversial statement about modern dating strategies among men.
- His comments went viral on social networks and caused numerous reactions.
- Egbuson spoke about a common approach some men use to pursue women who are already in a relationship.

Nollywood actor Timini Egbuson has sparked widespread reactions online after making a controversial statement about modern dating strategies among men.
During a recent conversation that has since gone viral on social media, the actor explained what he described as a common approach that some men now use when trying to win over a woman who is already in a relationship with someone else.
According to him, some men do not directly show love interest at an early stage. Instead, they gradually build friendship and emotional availability, establishing themselves as mainstays in the woman’s life while concealing their true intentions.
His words…
“If I make a move on your baby, I’m not going to tell her I like her. I’m going to befriend her and always be there for her. You’re going to sound weird if you stop her from being friends with me. That’s how guys move on to girls now.”
Some critics argue that such an approach can blur boundaries and create problems with trust in relationships, especially when an emotional connection is built under unclear intentions. Still others say it reflects how dating dynamics have evolved in an era fueled by social media, where relationships often begin through friendship circles and constant online interaction.
The comment quickly sparked a debate on social media platforms, with many users divided over whether the strategy reflected the “modern reality of dating” or promoted dishonest intentions in relationships.
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